How To Enhance Your Self Esteem

A low self esteem will make it difficult for you to accept love from anyone else simply because, someone with a low self esteem already finds it difficult to love or appreciate themselves.

Someone with a low self esteem does not know how to receive affection from anyone, especially someone they are romantically connected with.

There are three main factors that can affect a relationship where one or both partners suffer from a low self esteem:

1,Feelings of insecurity

2,Possesiveness

3,Finance

4,Feelings Of Insecurity:

Someone who is insecure, has a negative perception of who they think they are, hence the reason why it will be extremely difficult for that person, to believe anyone would like them, or love them just for who they are.

Insecurity is a feeling which stems from a “belief system” that believes, you not good enough.

If you are a relationship with someone who is insecure, that person will want to know where you are at all times.

Sometimes he or she will find it difficult to accept you going out for night out without he or she being present.

Someone who is insecure, becomes suspicious of friends or anyone remotely friendly towards their partner.

This eventually leads to all sorts of other issue such as a possesive behaviour patterns.

2 Possessive:

People who are insecure will eventually demonstrate some possessive behaviour at some stage in the relationship.

It usually starts with going through their lovers diary, text messages, making excessive demands etc.

3 Finance:

A low self esteem gradually spread to all areas of life especially finance.

I’m sure you’ve heard of the term “Retail therapy”. :-)

Well retail therapy is just a poor strategy used by those who are not willing to deal with the real issue, but would rather prefer to side step it for the time being.

Although you might experience a feeling of excitement whilst you ar shopping. That feeling is always short lived, and you will gradually find yourself back to square one.

The only way to prevent a low self esteem from getting in the middle of your love life, is making a decision take action today to confront it head on.

Every day that goes by without you doing something about it, it will only get worse and before you know it your love life would have being damaged.

Would you like to learn how to improve your self esteem and develop more self confidence, which is absolutely essential if you want maintain a good romantic relationship. Take action NOW!

Seyi Eyitayo, is the Author of the inspirational book “The Power Of Self Belief”. Seyi Eyitayo specialises in coaching both individuals and entrepreneur on how to develop a high self esteem and self confidence needed to achieve both their personal and career goals.

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